Hi David,

Do you yourself want to be less messy? If there was no GF around, would you actively want to live in a neater environment? If so, I like the Flylady DOT net website! As a natural slob myself, when I did it, my DH was so happy! You shine the sink, do your laundry, and declutter fifteen minutes a day. Of course you can do more with this system, but that’s the least you have to do for a happy GF.

OK, now, unless you’re going to legit marry the girl, DO NOT live with someone! This is the flipside. You are a bachelor. Bachelors are by definition free spirits and not known for their diet or cleanliness. Also, statistically, you are LESS likely to marry someone you live with.

Just my Two Cents,

Inky