Hi Sassypants,

I am excited for you, but what is concerning and something to think about is it is a long distance relationship, and usually they do not survive, no matter how exciting it may be. You also state in your post he “may” move closer, which is vague. Did he say he was definitely going to move closer and when? It so where is he going to move? Get a job, etc? You also mentioned, he is not very financially secure. Someone needs to be finally secure to move, for first and last months rent, moving expenses, gas, furniture, it may take him awhile to find a job, without having the financial means, how is he to support himself? What are your thoughts?