Anita,

I will try to explain as logically as possible.

He broke up with me. He told me that he isn’t in a place for a relationship at that moment due to military service and him moving college in another city. He told me that it isn’t me, it is just he is not emotionally available for any girlfriend, and that he probably won’t have any girlfriend in the next 3 years (after the military service)

This is what my ex boyfriend told me exactly. He also told me to go meet someone else that is “nicer” than him and he apologised for not keeping his promise of staying with me during him moving college. We were going to do a LDR originally but before he even move college, things were already “overwhelming” for my ex boyfriend because of the college preparation and army preparation. He was “called” to have his physical test the day before the break up.

He told me that lately he was feeling depressed.

That is it.

-Mina