Dearest Natalie,

It is great that you are thinking for yourself. Very few people manage to bring themselves into the picture when speaking about a lover. As you have mentioned, theoretically, you should discover and love yourself fully first before focusing on another person.

The thing is, life is never that idealistic. Follow your heart. You know what is best for yourself and I’m sure that will be the correct decision to make. Nothing will ever end up perfect, but the worst thing to do is to regret not doing anything at all.

You have a powerful personality. You are definitely not toxic, and give yourself some time to weigh the decisions out.

I am no different, I am a fool who is in love with a dense idiot and it is jeopardizing my internal equilibrium as well. It is all part and parcel of life.

With love,

Junna