Dear Tom:

You are welcome. As to the last sentence you wrote, right above: “not sure what I did wrong”-

Maybe you did nothing wrong. You don’t know who she is, how she thinks, what motivates her, what she values, so you are left wondering if you did something wrong and/ or … who is this woman you had such a good time with. All this wondering is a waste of your time because you don’t have information.

My point to you is and has been that with her, if there is to be further communication, and with other women in the future- instead of assuming, hoping, wondering- ask: get the information, and do so earlier than later.

Begin to get to know the woman right away: what does she value in a man, in a potential boyfriend, what is she looking for in a relationship, what is most important in her life and share the same, see if there is a match. It also feels good to know and be known in the context of a developing relationship.

anita