Dear Heartbrokengurl:

Maybe he is desperate too, maybe he is conflicted, on one hand wanting to break up and on the other, not wanting to break up. You wrote that “Maybe he’s uncertain too of what I’m thinking”-

this is why it is so important to have an honest conversation, to ask clearly, directly and answer, clearly, directly, so that each one of you knows what the other is thinking, not having to guess and speculate and try to manipulate the other’s thoughts (as in: I will say this so that he will be thinking that).

anita