Dear Gigi:

You wrote that “he wonders if he will ever love anyone the way he -still- loves me”- he probably should not love again the way he loves you because the  way he loved and loves you is not benefiting anyone, does it.

You wrote that you “feel heard for the first time”  in the therapy you are attending with him. Would you like to elaborate on that, on what you are being heard about for the first time (maybe when you are in front of your computer and it is easier to type)?

anita