Thanks Anita.  I suppose I will just have to decide if I can be a ‘friend’ to him and hope he’ll come around, but not sure I can do that when I’m in love with him, especially if I ‘wait’ around for him and it never happens.  It will be like my heart break s every time I see him.

I do feel like I at least got some more clarification from him.  I just hate that his ex did this to him, and it’s because of her that we can’t be together.