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Hi Bonni_mor,
I’ve learned over the years is that Silence is its own Response.
He texted you. Now he’s waiting with baited breath for you to emotionally accommodate him.
But he will justifiably receive No Response. Radio Silence.
First he will wonder if you blocked him. Then he’ll wonder if you ever got the message. Then he’ll wonder if you changed your number.
Now he will have a dilemma: He can try AGAIN and risk looking like a jerk or desperate (he is), or he can contact you at your law firm and look like a stalker.
That is how you Not Talk to him without Looking Bitter. You instead look like a person in a power position.
Good Luck,
Inky
P.S. If you don’t want to do the above, “Quien es?” is the other option.