Hi Anita,

Thanks for your reply. I feel like I am battling my thoughts of insecurity in the relationship. I will give you an example, this past Saturday, we went to a house warming party- One of my friends there was single recently and then suddenly, I started to feel worried that maybe my bf would start looking her way or that perhaps he would like her more than me bec she was now single- Something triggered the feeling though- what triggered it was that he asked me ” where is her boyfriend” and then suddenly I started to wonder why he cared- The thing is that, this is not just with one girl, its an on going bottle/situation with any girl that I think that its prettier than me or that I sensed that he looked at. And then I need his reassurance so that he can make me feel loved/safe again! My friends mom told my boyfriend at this party- ” Oh you are lucky to have someone like her” and in the car I reminded him of that- all these is due to insecurities within me and its something that I work hard to change the story in my head- Do you know what I mean?

Rox

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