If the stuff is super expensive ($10,000 armoire) or super important (original birth certificate) I would send a certified letter. Then he cannot claim he never received it. This also alerts him that you are not someone to mess around with.

A lot of times ex’s use the “stuff” as a point of contact. Once the “stuff” is gone, there is no more need for contact.

If the stuff is just “stuff” (books, old clothes, house plants) I would call it a loss and move on with your life.

Eventually he will have to decide what to do with the stuff and he will be confronted with his passive non-decision and will probably ship it back to you, unless it’s things like salt and pepper shakers, etc.

Good Luck!

Inky