Hi Connie,

From my own experience, you need to stop wondering why he is doing this, why he is doing that.. it’ll drive you insane!
People like to retreat when things don’t quite go the way they’d planned, & sometimes are unable to communicate their feelings, so ignoring them seems the best way for them. He’s just lost a girl that he could cheat on, lie to numerous times & by the sounds of things do whatever he likes – have his cake & eat it – he’s lost that now.

Try not to think about what he might be thinking & why, because he isn’t communicating so you will never know. Like the others have said, the possessions are a way of keeping in contact with you, by stringing it out. Also, like the others have said, if it’s stuff you know longer need leave it & allow this to be your cut off, he treated you bad, why do you feel the need to continue chasing? I feel like you’re trying to keep the channels open, if you really wanted your stuff you could send a friend round to get it at any point, you could give him a time of when they’re coming & go. If he isn’t in, keep trying?