Dear Alexandra:

First, regarding your sister: what you described is a series of aggressive attacks on her part against you, nothing less. And your counter attack responses. Reads like she is starting those and you are responding. Reads like she has a deep seated anger at you and is lashing out at you repeatedly. And reads like, you are a convenient target for her anger, anger she has at someone else but is afraid to express her anger to that person.

Within your family, then, you have been given the role of the Wrong One. Tell me more about it, will you?

anita