Dear Roxy – You should have left yesterday. He has a lot going on but what really surprises me is that you are allowing him to treat you like a choice remove yourself from this equation. He thinks its alright to keep you a secret partly you are to be blamed cause you are allowing it.

Will you invite a dick or douche bag into your home???? then why are you letting one into your mind and heart? If you are waiting for him to come around  after all this time you will be waiting a long time.

Most importantly address your fears why do you want him if clearly is unsure of you ? Are you scared you wont meet someone else? If you had a daughter and she told you this story with a man she is involved  with what advice would you give her?

DO NOT LET HIM TREAT YOU LIKE A CHOICE.