Hi OakPine,

I’m sorry to hear you are going through this. Do you know if she has been diagnosed with any type of mental health diagnosis? It sounds as if she might look into clinical anxiet depression and anxiety screening. Especially, if she started recently acting like this during your 12 years together. One minute she she is loving, the next she is not. I feel professional counseling, or stress management/coping skills might help..medication treatment program. Any thoughts? Please post again..