Hi Mark,

Yes, a couple of months ago when I had that conversation with him, I was really thinking being his girlfriend would make me feel more safe and confident about my place. I believe that commitment comes more from the heart, and I don’t think his heart is committed. Something I haven’t mentioned is that he takes zoloft for depression. Sometimes he says that he feels like his heart is disconnected from his body, that even tho everything is telling him that he should be crazy in love with me, that there is something that does not let him. I recommended him to see a therapist as part of deal of working on our relationship. I also said that he needed to tell his therapist about his commitment issues, which he agreed and is working on it right now.

My doubt is if I should leave him alone while he struggles with this, or if I should keep being with him. and Yes, by being with him I mean sharing both my heart and my mind. Or if I should leave him alone and move on.

I do have a lot of emotional friendships but he doesn’t. Maybe that’s something I could give him advice on.

thanks!