Thank you everyone!  There were a range of comments and I appreciate that.  As it turned out, he did contact me, we went to dinner and talked for hours.   He has small children, where at our age most don’t.  So I believe his focus is on his children more than wanting a relationship.    He was a gentleman and wasn’t looking for a hook up so I was thankful for that and just the chance to learn more about the dating process.   Onward and upward!