Hi Avi,

I have decided, that I have been abused and mistreated in my childhood to the extent that I do not want to continue to put myself in that situation to keep being treated like that. I talked to another moderator from another group on Thursday afternoons I will be joining. He said he has heard numerous complaints about her, and that is why that group has no moderator. No one wants to deal with her. She has done this with all the “newcomers” and scared them away. And that is why that type of group is chaos and not a safe place for Adult Children of Alcoholics. We need a safe place to go, where there is no abuse or turmoil. I don’t want to deal with drama. I have blocked her number and will not attend the Sunday morning groups anymore. Hurt people, hurt people, and I don’t want the abuse right now. It is not good for my healing. I have no sympathy for her. The moderator said several people have tried to help her, she will come on very nice and charming, and turn on you in a second.

Thanks again for your reply. I hope you had a good weekend. ☺

• This reply was modified 6 years, 10 months ago by Eliana.