Dear Buddi:

You are welcome.

You feel a strong emotional attachment to Mike. The nature of attachment of any kind is that it is difficult to let go. I need to be away from the computer for about sixteen hours or so. If you would like to share more about your attachment to him, please do.

I was wondering, regarding your guilty feelings you mentioned above, guilty for cheating on your husband- how did you manage to continue to cheat on him for many months (or years?) on and on and on… what did you do with those guilty feelings throughout that long period of  time?

anita