Dear Mya:

I think I understand now. What a delight it is to read your update, and to understand it better. My goodness, it was me who wrote to you in November 2015, on this thread above: “What I am getting… is that you wish you were …being assertive, in stating, in taking what you want, in having that confidence to go for what you want… You are shy, that is blocked…how can you, in small ways, in one step at a time, go and take what you want?”

More than two years later, today, you wrote: “When someone mentioned that I was ‘blocked somehow’ previously 2 years ago it was true.. I unblocked abroad.. I was… too shy…Now I am a different person, I am assertive, nice but assertive- I can say NO.”

It is nice for me to know, that in a small way, I was helpful to you unblocking, that is removing the fear enough so to be able to practice being assertive.

I hope you post again anytime you’d like.

anita