Hi J,
My step-mother said something to me that was very wise. After I was broken up with and went to her for comfort she said, “I like when other people make my decisions for me!” And I never went back to that guy. (Yes, he tried.)
So I would call his bluff. He’s put you in this limbo (which is intolerable). I would FB Message/text him at work and write, “You know what, you’re right. This isn’t working. All the best going forward sweetie! xx00 (heart emoticon).”
Now YOU officially broke up with HIM. You are no longer in limbo!
He will panic and run to your door at best. Or, at worst, won’t respond, relieved. Either way you are moving forward and will have your answer.
Good Luck!
Inky
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