Dear Mya:

I don’t like party life myself, drinking, partying… no I wouldn’t like it now and I wouldn’t like it if I was your age.

This former friend of yours, I hope she remains a former friend, no longer in your life and if it is possible for you, it is better that you check on her on social media. Let her be in your past, all the way in your past.

You value freedom highly, independence and respect in relationships with others. Freedom, having those wings, to me, is about making thoughtful choices. Not compulsive, impulsive choices out of habit, automatic reaction to emotions, but taking time and thinking first.

anita