Dear Cali Chica:

You wrote that she doesn’t know where she ends and where you begin. I think that in her mind … she never ends. There is no one else but her in her world.

She doesn’t see you or anyone else. She has no empathy for you, therefore, nor for anyone else.

She doesn’t see you. She doesn’t consider how you feel… is this a person worthy of your time, of your energy? Is this a person to try and please… promote that self absorption, feed it more.

Your mother is very similar to mine, both being extreme cases of self absorption.

anita