Louise,

Depression, anxiety, new job, kids and their issues, a pregnancy and the termination and rushing into a relationship all are great factors for not being available for a relationship.

Louise,

I am always cautious about using the word “love” and focusing on that for that can placing expectations on the other person.    So I would not think of him not loving you.  Regardless it is not about you and he has made it clear he does not want to continue the relationship.

Time to move on.  And yes it is hard considering all you have been through with him in such a compressed period of time.

I have no easy formula to get through this.

Mark