Anita, I agree about the 30-year yearning. I have my doubts.

Abubin, Especially since she has gone from yearning for you to somehow making a very fast and unfair judgment about one thing you said.  She sounds unstable. You cannot build a relationship with this kind of stuff. I think if you really dissect what has happened you will agree that this isn’t meant to be. And you are being saved from something that isn’t going to turn out well.

I am so sorry you are hurting and it will get better. You have been on a fast and furious ride and your head is still spinning.