Hi Sierra,

The good news is as time goes by, he can’t really be mad at you for how you feel or where you were/are in life. That’s like being mad at a child for not being able to do calculus. You wanted to. You tried. It didn’t work out. You weren’t there yet.

You never intentionally abused him and that can go a long way. You tried NOT to hurt him. But he was hurt nonetheless.

To me you are either single, married, or divorced. You don’t have to give up everything about being single when you’re with someone. It just means you’re both single together, you go to the same parties and you don’t mess around. It sounds like now that you have your “Single” life back, you’re not enjoying it anyway. And the way you’re pining over him I can tell you’re not fooling around with other guys right now.

So yes, you can theoretically go back. But this time have him contact you. He can approach you at parties. He’s the one that was hurt. And he’s the only one that can get over that hurt, no matter how much you apologized and explained.

Blessings,

Inky