Hi Heisenberg,

I think at this time, your child should be your first priority. I re-read several of your posts, your wife does not want and has expressed her wishes in a rather cruel way she no longer wants to be with you. She has treated you disrespectfully, rudely, and with much hostility, as her parents. I do not see things getting any better. They have their minds made up. Surely, this is not what you want for a partner? There are many women out there who would love to get to know you and your child. You may find yourself happier with them..the child will be happier with less tension, hostility, etc. Right now, your wife knows what she is doing, and is doing it in a calculculating way. She is deliberately trying to distance herself and to have some custody of the child. Fight. Don’t let her and her parents walk all over you. Find an attorney asap. Get a divorce. No contact with her. Push for sole custody. Find a loving, stable, mature woman who will love your child and who is emotionally available. You deserve better than the treatment your wife is giving you. Make your child your first priority. Getting your wife back is not an option, she does not want this.