Dear Sierra:

I too am glad that he acknowledged what you said to be true. That is a good think, it wouldn’t be good if he denied and attacked you for pointing out what is inconvenient to acknowledge.

He told you that he doesn’t know why “he’s mad and mean on the inside”- because he was hurt as a child. The fact that he doesn’t acknowledge this reality or doesn’t see the connection means that he has a lot of work to do. Without further insight, the acknowledgment I mentioned above, will be of no further value.

Your recent post, your update, all makes good sense to me. Congratulations for doing such a great job when you met him as well as your thinking following meeting him. I like your resolutions, all is making sense to me.

The 14th significance, that is interesting, but it does not indicate that surely the two of you will end up together in the future. Maybe there is an indication of a possibility, maybe a strong possibility, but not certainty.

Again, very good job on your part. I bet your mother is proud of you. I am.

anita