Dear Sierra:

You did your best telling him what you did.

“all he has to do is accept it and not question it”- impossible to do unless he takes on the long, long process of gradual healing, gradually changing this core belief that he is unlovable. He probably needs a professional’s help doing so. I did.

Maybe what you told him will pop up in his head again, at certain moments and will motivate him to get such help.

Regarding the signs you see, I suggest that you don’t put your full trust in those. I have seen signs myself, years ago, that did not lead me anywhere good. Sometimes coincidences are amazing and make me wonder how it is possible that this or that is only a coincidence. Thing is, maybe this or that is more than a coincidence, but in my life those incredible coincidences have proven to not be signs-from-above as to what I should do.

Other people’s stories indicate the same. People who followed those signs and got nowhere.

anita