That’s great Therlie!  I’m glad you are in a good place.  Sometimes our expectations get the best of us.  I just read an article about how bronze medal winners in the Olympics are much happier than the silver medal winners.  Seems counterintuitive but it makes total sense – silver medal winners are depressed because they just missed out on a gold medal, while bronze medal winners are  happy and relieved because they have a medal!

I think going about life not bounded by our expectations of the future, and not baggaged by our past is the best approach in living in the present.

Best of luck in your new ventures!