Hi Anita,

I agree. I’m meeting her today, I have suggested meeting her in a coffee shop as opposed to her house, so that I feel a little more comfortable if the subject comes up. If it doesn’t I have decided I will leave it & drop an expectation & going forward wait for her to instigate meeting up. The whole not seeing each other often thing didn’t bother me & never has as we both have our own busy lives, the things that bothered me most was the card situation, particularly for my birthday. But I’ll drop that & leave it in the past & hope things get better moving forward.