Dear Anna:

I am trying to understand. You suggested that you would desperately want him in your life, as a boyfriend, correct? And yet when he asked you to watch a movie, at the end of last year, only four months ago, or so, you “had other plans already”.

How is it that you didn’t change your plans so to get together with him?

And then, when he messaged you last, May 3, of this year, you “replied two  days later because I was busy”-

How is it that you didn’t reply immediately, given how intensely you wanted him in your life?

anita