Newlifestartsnow,

Your tinybuddha name tells me that you want to make changes in your life.  I wonder why you want to be friends who is out of integrity by using a handicap spot and being mad at you for refusing to do something that she is responsible for.

I would examine yourself on why you want to stay in relationship/friendship with such a person.

You already know that you are in the right on this.  You already asserted your boundaries on letting her know that you will not do her bidding anymore.

We can tell you what to do or not to do.  This is up to you to determine how much you value yourself, your values, your boundaries.

Mark