Hi Kai,

In situations such as these, it is really helpful to run by the conversation with a professional. Sometimes a relationship isn’t working out and it has nothing to do with your depression/anxiety/personality disorder. Blowing up and blocking you, for example,  is a very immature response on his part, even if you were depressed/anxious/disordered at the time.

No matter what your issues are, breaking up and then getting back together (rinse, repeat) is a bad habit to get into. If you’re broken up, stay broken up, and perhaps revisit the relationship next year if you’re both free. This gives space and maturity time to work its magic.

Best,

Inky