Jonathan,

She is choosing not to be with you… physically, emotionally, sexually so kicking her out is just a logical confirmation of what she has already signaled what she wants, i.e. not to be with you.  Demanding touch as you suspect is not a solution.

If this is a “phase” then let her have it without you accommodating her ill treatment towards you.

Respect yourself Jonathan.  Move her out and move on.  She already has made that decision, it is your turn to make yours.

Mark