Dear Tebriz:

You wrote that during the relationship you were: “being overly protective, wanting him to be always with me… I truly loved him. Like I wonder if he ate, or if he is cold“.

But when he told you that “he had certain expectations, like he would like me to cook for us, and help him with his clothes”- you refused.

My question to you is: if you were worried if he ate, or if he was cold, why didn’t you consider cooking for him (so that he ate) and helping him with his clothes (so that was not cold)?

anita