alexa05,

So why can’t he stay with one of two friends or mother?

I would not worry about whether or not he makes you look like a fool.  I would be more concerned if you are speaking your truth or not, that you two have good communication, that you are able to do so without worrying about drama.

Talk to him.  Tell him your concerns.  This is part of having a mature relationship.  You don’t need to bring in “drama” i.e. blaming, yelling.  You can do so in a calm way that honestly express your real feelings.

Mark