Hi Surviving30,

This will get better. It will take a long time (a LONG time!!) but I promise you.. when your username is “Survived40” you will look back on this man and feel bad for him and sorry for him. Or be shocked that you ever fell for someone like him. Or shocked that he is uglier, sadder, more entrenched in his abusive personality, sick or even in jail.

And the new man in your life (whoever that is at the time) will simply look better and better. And you two will go through your OWN traumas together, and victories, and life experiences. So that you will say THANK GOD for blessing you with what a good nice partner is supposed to look like!

Blessings,

Inky