Anita,

This all does make sense. I guess I’m just struggling with the fact that he was able to move on so quickly. It really felt like a slap to my face. He has publicized her, when he never did with me as we never even had a title. Even if it is not true, I feel inadequate. I cant help but think that he simply felt different and stronger for her than with me. I wish there was a way to know how he really felt and why he really moved on. I feel like he began speaking to her before we even ended even though we were exclusive. Its just hard to wrap my head around and I don’t know how to stop thinking about it and move on like he has. I constantly think about what they are doing, how she might be better than me, why he chose her, etc. If what you said at the end is true, why do you guys go for the ‘safer’ option? Is it because they see more a future with them? Why not pick the person they have stronger feelings for?