Dear abubin:

How are your children? I don’t remember if you have one or more. Are you available to them, have you been available to them through this time of being focused on this woman?

Please focus on your responsibility as a father, not only the financial responsibility but the emotional responsibility.

I think that your focus and anger regarding this woman is less about her and more about your unlived life, the loveless status of your marriage, your boredom, lack of passion, unfulfilling work life, the failure of the business you started some time ago.

Find a passion, perhaps being an emotionally involved father, and some of that anger may lessen.

anita