And can you tell me when is it going to happen? 3 months from now?  am I gonna still love him even if I know our thing is over? sometimes there is this thought coming to me that we will be together again even though I know it’s not gonna happen, it’s like a feeling coming from me remembering the him from the past, I know it’s just my mind playing games on me because I know we won’t be together again and that I will find someone better, but when these thoughts come uninvited I get scared cos what if I can’t stop loving him? I want to feel nothing for him but there’s this feeling of attachment to the thought of him, it’s like he is supposed to be in my life, but I want him gone so I can be happy again.