Dear Victoria:

My thoughts:  it is reasonable to consider whether or not to bring children into a world that is indeed full of injustice and aggression. I think that a woman who chooses to not have children is not a failure.

It is okay to drive an older car, as long as it doesn’t pollute the air more than a newer car. I was much happier driving my old car at the time than driving my new car. With the new car it hurt every time it got scratched. I was care free with the old car.

Because it bothers you (would bother me too), choosing a boyfriend/ husband who does not watch porn is an excellent idea.

Regarding not achieving goals you set, according to a timeline- I have found out that successfully achieving goals is often followed by the same anxiety that drove people to form and achieve those goals.

Would you like to share about the beginning of your anxiety, that restlessness,  disquiet?

anita

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