Dear Cass:

Did you meet the guy in 2016 (original post)? In any case, you met him when you were 18, had a 7 month relationship, and now you are 19. You are very young.

You believe that the guy is immature, withdraws when angry, blow up and then ignore you, hot and cold, similar to your father. You indicated it yourself, that he is similar to your father.

But you are different, correct? You don’t withdraw when angry, you don’t blow up like the guy did, like your father does. You are mature… like your mother?

anita