Dear Victoria:

There is no timetable that you have to follow, really. No one but you taking notes of what you achieve or not and at what age. It is not necessary for you to hold yourself accountable to a timetable.

There is one person I am thinking about right now, a very famous person who achieved international fame, an international movie star who couldn’t endure living anymore and put an end to it.

He had a very long resume of achievements starting from an early age. You’d think that would make his life worth living, correct? He wasn’t content. He wanted more and he wanted more for too long.

It is not a resume of achievements that brings content to a person, it is being okay with what-is that brings contentment. Always wanting more, something one does not have, is what brings discontent.

Do your best to live a comfortable life, drive a safe, newer car, yes. And at the same time, be as content as you can with the life that is available to you, the car, the money you have, your marital status. Try to be okay with it.

anita