Dear Ramnarayan:

You asked me if there “is a chance that she love me one day?”

Statistically, I suppose there is a chance. Seems to me like a very small chance.

Lets talk about chances, statistical chances: what are the chances that you pass the exam without focusing on it? What are the chances of you getting a good job if you fail the exam?

You have no control over her feelings for you, so there is nothing you can do about it. On the other hand, you have some control over your behavior. As difficult as it feels like, it is possible for you to stop all contact with her until the June 3, less than a month from now.

You can choose to not take the exam and think about her all the time, non stop (except when you sleep maybe, or here and there when you happen to forget for a moment).

What do you choose to do?

anita