Boys do all kinds of stuff they do not mean but that is only when they are not serious enough. Listening to you I feel he is confused about his feelings and confusion means there is nothing you can do to help him out. It is only him that can help himself out.

I can imagine how it would be when you try hanging out with your friends, their phones buzzing with texts and calls in between and maybe they even ditch you midway to go with their guy.

You are angry and this is the right kind of emotion to distance yourself but do not hold on to it for very long. Indulge in something you like, your hobby, that requires nobody else but just you. If you live with your parents, try getting to know them more. Maybe focus on what exactly you want to do after college, I know nobody has a clear answer to that question. haha, I remember it took a lot of effort on my part to figure that out.

I accept it is easier and more tempting to have someone next to you than traversing alone but you would need to go on this journey. Maybe connect with old friends on social media, or make new ones(not dangerous ones). Then you will have a phone buzzing with texts too..hehe