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I did want clarification. Which she did. But after that she kept initiating conversation.
For example we started talking on a Thursday night. It continued very steadily through Friday afternoon. Which one of the texts I sent her is “if she’s been riding much?” (We used to ride quads together). She said “she doesn’t have anyone to go with anymore and the last time she went was with me” so I said “we could meet up sometime and go for a ride. You never know what the future holds. I’m always down for a ride. “she responded “ down for a ride huh?! LOL sorry…never know”
i just responded “funny girl”
and she sent an emoji ?
Ii didn’t respond back. Later that next night she texted me out of the blue
“check out the moon tonight!” (The moon was one of our things.)
Then texted back and forth that night and she asked me questions about my GF. This was after we agreeed not to talk about our current gf and bf. (her idea btw)
she even asked me if I e moved her in and previously did admit to being jealous. It was later that night usually she would normally be asleep and that’s when she sent me the selfie saying “so you do t forget me”
So I guess that could be misunderstood as flirting. Really felt like it to me. That’s what I meant by I wish she wouldn’t of contacted me again if she would of left me alone after telling me why she really left that would of been great in fact I felt great after she did it felt like I got the closure I needed and I was happy. I felt like I could finally move on. but then when she kept texting and said those things that’s what sparked me up again. That’s why I was confused and still am
what u said does make sense though. To an extent. I guess if I still didn’t have feelings for her maybe I would of been able to see it different but to me it feels like flirting. I even told my good female friend about it and she got pissed. She thought that my ex was playing games and screwing with my head.
I do need to just forget about her though. It’s just hard to do. I try. It’s just difficult.