Hi Anita,

You hit the nail on the head!  I don’t have words to describe how it makes me feel.  I can’t understand why he wants to hurt me & make things harder than they are~

I have not asked him to come back, or even try to discuss with him why he left~  I just asked him for the help he offered~

I haven’t contacted him in any way shape, or form since the 1 text 3 days ago…

I will not humiliate myself, or do anything to add to the hurt.  I don’t get it and guess I will never understand my original thought of, “How could he have ever really loved me” and  I don’t want to sound like one of those people that say But He Loved me.  We were together 8 years and everyday he would say he loved me & give me a kiss before he went to work.   But that doesn’t make up for all the time I would spend alone and him never talking about things.

I hate to say it, but I need to just write this off~ It is painful…