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May 18, 2018 at 8:28 am
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AnonymousGuest
Dear Bella:
You wrote “I can’t understand why he wants to hurt me & make things harder than they are”-
He probably, from my understanding based on what you shared, wants to discourage you from asking him to help you around your house. And it is not that he is motivated to “make things harder than they are” for you- he is probably motivated to make things easier for him.
anita
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