Dear Ladybug:

So the thought is the following, is it not:

if I, Ladybug, give him the space he needs so that he feels independent, his own man, balsy, competent, one who dominates relentlessly, alone and ruthless (his words), and he becomes those things (independent… ruthless), then he will no  longer need space. And then, we can have a different kind of a relationship, one closer, one without ambiguities.

Am I correct, is this your thinking?

anita